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52 Weeks of Sex: Q&A w/ The Sexpert

52 Weeks of Sex: Q&A w/ The Sexpert

Spring is for lovers. Summer is for lusters. My favorite thing about good summer sex is that it knocks you off your feet and has you questioning everything. You’ve got questions, and we’ve got answers. Over the past couple weeks, …


10 Sex Tips Every Guy Should Know

10 Sex Tips Every Guy Should Know

10 Sex Tips Every Guy Should Know 

By Good Days Sexpert Jill Di Donato

Top 10 sex tips

Let’s take the sex talk out of the locker room, and into bedroom where it belongs. Here are my top ten tips for doin it and …


Top Ten Spots to Have Sex Outside the Bedroom

Top Ten Spots to Have Sex Outside the Bedroom

By Good Days Sexpert, Jill Di Donato

The magic doesn’t happen in the bedroom anymore fellas! Here’s ten ‘hot spots’ where you can make it happen Cap’n…

10. On a rooftop

There’s bound to be wind and stars, like you’re …


Comfort Sex … Is It the New Casual Sex?

Comfort Sex … Is It the New Casual Sex?

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Have you ever gotten that craving for sex, but not for the usual reasons? After a particularly rotten date, a silly fight with one of my best friends, or maybe just one of those days when nothing seems to go …


What’s a Breast O?

What’s a Breast O?

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Give Your Woman A Breast Orgasm

By Jill Di Donato

One of the perks of writing about sex is that when you disclose this information at cocktail parties, people tend to confess scandalous tidbits, and in this case, very useful …


How Making THE LIST (of People I’ve Slept With) Helped Get Me Ready For the New Year

How Making THE LIST (of People I’ve Slept With) Helped Get Me Ready For the New Year

By Jill Di Donato

When you tell people you’re a sex columnist, be prepared for the I-think-I’m-so-clever quip, “How do you do your research? Sleep with a ton of people?”

Although that comment usually engenders an eye-roll on my part …


52 Weeks of Sex: How Sandy Changed a Single Gal’s Stance on Dating

52 Weeks of Sex: How Sandy Changed a Single Gal’s Stance on Dating
As Sandy all reminded us, we may have two legs planted on the ground, but nature doesn’t always intend to keep them there. We may blow away or find ourselves treading water, just to keep afloat. Before you think, here …

52 Weeks of Sex: All About Lube

52 Weeks of Sex: All About Lube

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Now that we’re of a certain age, we should all have a “goody drawer.” What you keep in it depends on your personal sexual preferences, but one item that should be in


52 Weeks of Sex: Q&A With The Sexpert

52 Weeks of Sex: Q&A With The Sexpert

Jill Di Donato, MFA , is a novelist, columnist, professor, and Unruly Heir’s resident sexpert. Her novel BEAUTIFUL GARBAGE, about a 1980s artist turned elite call girl, is forthcoming from She Writes Press in 2013. She writes a sex and


52 Weeks of Sex: The Casper Effect (ahem, men, can you please not do this)

52 Weeks of Sex: The Casper Effect (ahem, men, can you please not do this)

“There’s a term for when a guy stops calling,” my hairdresser tells me as he curls my tresses into a Joan Crawford wave à la Mildred Pierce. “It’s called dating.”

Has dating really devolved into something so cynical? And why …


52 Weeks of Sex: Erogenous Zones

52 Weeks of Sex: Erogenous Zones

“So,” I told one of my male friends, “I’m writing about women’s erogenous zones. Any thoughts?” He reacted with a shudder and then pretty much bolted in the other direction with a quick goodbye. Another guy friend hid his face …


52 Weeks of Sex by Jill Di Donato: Sole Searching Pt. I

52 Weeks of Sex by Jill Di Donato: Sole Searching Pt. I

Sole Searching:

Dalliances in New York’s Underground Fetish Scene

Part I

 

“Size seven?”

It wasn’t so much a question as it was an appraisal.

My interviewer was soft-spoken and polite, well dressed, and had the type of chiseled bone …


52 Weeks of Sex by Jill Di Donato: Why Women Love Porn

52 Weeks of Sex by Jill Di Donato: Why Women Love Porn

What Women Really Think About Porn

Good luck trying to find a good, old fashioned peep show in Times Square. These days, even the sex shops are Disney. Although you might see some lascivious undertakings along the Gowanus or in …